lonely and desperate

If you are currently single, forced or unforced it doesn’t matter much. What matters is you have decided you want to get her back.

If you can follow instructions like I did when I used these 5 steps to get my wife back you will put yourself in a much better position to do that. To get her back.

Step 1 - I needed a game plan. A plan of action. So I scoured the net for the best I could find.

All roads kept pointing me to two particular ready made guides that definitely looked the part. But would they deliver?

I thought I’d give both a try but one was a total let down. The other “The Magic Of Making Up” was a decent read. A bit too much fluff for my liking but the bits that mattered were really worth it.

Step 2 - I was emotionally smashed so I took the advice and spent a while getting my head into gear.

I followed the advice and after a week or so I was feeling far more emotionally able to tackle the problem head on.

Step 3 - I decided to go with the psychological mind moves advised in he guide. This was one of the better sections.

The psychological trick was to leave her a seeded (with curiosity) message on her voice mail. I didn’t ask her to call me back but she did within 24 hours.

Step 4 - Next was another psychological move that saw me play her favorite song in the background if she phoned.

I made sure whenever she phoned that she could hear her song play in the background. She still doesn’t realise it was me that did some psychological manoeuvring, she thinks she made the first call to get us back together.

Step 5 - After a few weeks of tentative chit chat on the phone, usually her calling me, I chanced my arm and asked her if she wanted to meet for a coffee somewhere.

She agreed and it was smooth sailing after this. Coffee went on to become a meal, which went on to become a date, which went on to become her sleeping over at my house quite often.

It all ended in her staying over more than not staying, and ending in her moving back in. Six to eight weeks it took to get her back.

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