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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Coach , writes… …

People who are single who desire to understand the Law of Attraction to create love often ask me for advice. They wonder, “Can you attract an incompatible relationship?” The answer to that is Yes and No. I will elaborate. You create the “Wrong” lover based on what it is you say you desire. In other words, your positive thoughts are projecting “I want a lover who’s fun, caring, and passionate. Someone who treats me well” but your real expectation is something more like … “I can never see the correct woman. Why do my friends have such an easy route? What am I doing incorrectly? Where are all of the eligible amazing women? And so on. So you are going to end up attracting more concerning what you are subconsciously desiring and what you’re expecting to happen. So is she incorrect? Perhaps, is your thought pattern incorrect? The Law of Attraction states what you pay attention to you attain more of. So if you are haven’t found a love and are searching for a relationship, you need to pay attention to what it is like to be in a love relationship, not the other way around.

A great exercise to improve your thinking on this is by using a strong tool that Abraham-Hicks teaches called Book of Positive Aspects. This is a powerful tool for creating a Love with the Law of Attraction.

You can wield this tool when you see you experience a lot of negative vibrations and need to continue shifting your intention and find a more harmonious feeling place. When you desire to improve your point of attraction because you have got a lot of negative momentum going. Here is how it works: you should do this with paper and pencil to help acquire the hang of the exercise. I really recommend that you always write a Book of Positive Aspects. You’ll wish to set aside at least 15 minutes for this exercise.

Near the top of the page put down the area of what you want a better energy set point on. Perhaps a subject has gotten your attention that you do not desire, you would prefer to not experience it, or maybe you have acquired a good bit of judgment about this subject and feel bad. Write down what that is. Now notice that you know what you do not desire and the comparison has aided you to hone the intention of what you actually want. Your job is to write down in detail you want. And continue turning your attention to the better feeling desire. Write down lists of what you like about what IS working, what is good, what you have that you DO like, even concerning the present life situation. Search for aspects of your life to be appreciative of in the area and in any outside or related situation. This will point you to the positive attraction setting. You’ll create what you want rather than negative intentions. Test it out for yourself. What do you have to lose?

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