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Advice On How You Can Survive A Sexless Marriage.

July 13th, 2010 · No Comments · lonely and desperate articles

You are wondering whether the lack of sex in your marriage could mean the end of it and ultimately lead to a divorce. Perhaps your friends tell you this, or maybe you read this somewhere, or possibly you even came to this conclusion all by yourself. But it is not correct! You can turn around a sexless marriage and survive it and have a better sex life.

There are some popular misconceptions about sexless marriages. One example of this is the believe that women have a lower sex drive then men. This is incorrect, as it is a statistical fact that women complain more about sexless marriages the men. In society sexless marriages are fairly often associated with the more elderly couples. Do not accept this for a minute. A lot of elderly married couples still have a fantastic sex life more so then a number of couples half their age. The problem of being in a sexless relationship is common to all ages young and old, so don’t feel that you are any different because you are young.

The trick to surviving a sexless marriage is to get the facts so you know how to deal with them. To be in a sexless marriage means that there is no sex in the relationship. No sex ever. There is something very wrong with your marriage. There is a huge gap between sexless marriage and marriages with infrequent sex.

To think that you are the only person in a marriage without sex is absurd. There are a lot of sexless marriages in society today, and it is a growing concern. But don’t worry the number of people saving their marriage by solving their problems is also growing.

One of the most important things to realize when you are trying to survive a sexless marriage is to not feel ashamed of your situation. You have a problem with your relationship that is not uncommon, and one you can do something about.

What you must avoid is to be self-interested, and only think of yourself. The fact that you are hurting does not indicate that you are not the cause of the problem. You have to realize that the issue is inside the relationship, and your partner probably feels the same way. It is important to be tactful so not the put the other person off and allow you both to concentrate on the issue.

Sometimes no matter how hard you try you can’t fix the problem by yourself and you may need the advice of a professional. You can’t always have all the answers to your problems, so it is a good idea to sometimes get another opinion. It is a sex counselors job to find out why here is a lack of sex in your marriage. Seek the help of your regular GP for some advice first. Talk to your doctor about the issues with your marriage and ask him to recommend a sex counselor.


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