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So, you’re a few dates deep into a new relationship, and you’re eager to take the next step. You want her to know that you care about her, and to show that, you want to choose the perfect gift. This is a tricky decision. You don’t want to choose too early and blow a great opportunity, but nor do you want to hold out.

One of the biggest mistakes you can make with a new woman in your life is holding yourself back. Many guys aren’t sure that this is the right one to go after, so they hold themselves back. Women can sense this, and even the greatest woman in the world will be disappointed if she sees that you’re not putting forth effort on her behalf.

Put forth some effort to get to know her. Open up your ears and pay attention to her when she talks. She will naturally reveal the things she’s interested in, and this is greatly useful information to have. If she’s talking about a crystal necklace, pay attention. If she’s talking about 19th century Russian literature, pay attention.

The reason you want to pay attention is so you can prepare for the all important first gift. This is a major milestone that can really let this woman know you care about her and want to move forward. While season tickets to the Sox or a tote bag could make one woman go wild, the other may balk with disinterest. Likewise, a first edition ‘Brothers Karamazov’ may rock her world.

This is a major problem actually. Too many men are content on just giving the basic gifts. Whether it’s boxes of chocolates, a jewelry set, or flowers, the day for such gifts is long over. While they do show a bit of thoughtfulness, they don’t show that you’ve really paid attention to this woman and learned what she truly likes and values.

In addition, you should be aware of the appropriate time to begin giving gifts. Giving an extravagant and well thought out gift on the third date may make it the night of your life, but giving one on the second may have you coming across as just a bit too eager or needy. You can only know this by paying attention to the individual woman.

What you want to keep in mind here is that all women are different. The only way you can succeed is to give it your all and to really get to know them as an individual human being. Just remember; with any woman, the worst sin of all is holding yourself back.

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