What is the one thing you want most at this moment in time? Maybe I can help you if you said you wanted to know how to win her back. It matters not who dumped who, I don’t know the ins and outs of your split. I do know how to win a lady back though. I also was dumped a while ago and I know only too well how it hurts.
The fact that we’d split up had totally taken control of my life. There’s me thinking things were good and bam! she’s walked out. Talk about a shock. I think that’s one of our big weaknesses. We get in a comfort zone in a relationship and we start to believe things are going along nicely.
When my wife ran off and I wanted to get my wife back I was lost, didn’t have the first idea. I was doing all the things you are doing now. Searching around the internet looking for info. I was looking for a complete solution but all I was finding was little bits of the solution which I had no clue how to use.
I wasn’t stupid enough to think I could buy a magic bullet on the net and get her back with it. But I was searching for information that I could put together and come up with a battle plan. I was worrying that she’d be gone with another guy if I didn’t do something quick.
I ended up on a website selling an ebook about getting back together and all the magic surrounding it. Yeah right! I decided to give it a go after watching a video of the guy selling it. As a salesman, he stunk a bit but I liked his ideas. I had nothing else to lose and maybe much to gain.
I didn’t really know what to expect but I certainly wasn’t expecting a section on psychological mind moves. Oh boy was I gonna lay some psycho babble mumbo jumbo on my ex. As it happens, the psychological mind games were sweet & very subtle. It wasn’t the hypnosis mumbo jumbo I thought it might be.
Didn’t mean the mind games weren’t as powerful as I’d expected. In fact they worked better than I thought. I used the systems advice to make contact with my ex again. They even show you just how to do this. Quite sneakily as well I might add. She got in touch with me (refer to the psycho tactics) and we met up for coffee. Following the system advice I was in total control of this and every future situation.
I was steering every date we had. My ex did not realise this and to this day, still doesn’t realise I was (and still am) doing it. I know that if we ever split again I have the ammunition to get my ex back if I want to.
You’ve got two ways you can go down now if you want to win her back. Carry on as you are doing now. Which is probably getting you nowhere fast? Or you can make it happen for yourself, learn how to win her back and then keep her.
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