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Are you ready to jump into the online dating scene? The internet has revolutionized meeting women for shy or lazy men.  Does this happen to you – you walk into your local bar and get ignored by all of the beautiful girls?  Well, modern technology has evened up the playing field.  These days you can chat to a hot girl online while she takes the time to get to know the real you.

So how do you meet a stunning girl online?  The key to success is knowing how to flirt.  The internet may have improved your chances of scoring a girlfriend, but you still need to know how to interact with other [human beings.

If you spend more time in front of a computer than people, then this may be a foreign concept for you.   Flirting is a basic human interaction that shows a person that you are interested in them.  Face to face, people flirt with body language.  Online, we flirt with the written word.

So why is flirting a fantastic way to help you meet beautiful women online?  Well, think about what happens when you first see a stunning woman in a bar.

Let’s assume you are not just gazing lustfully at her across the bar and have actually gone up introduce yourself.  You think of a great opening line … and freeze up.  Instead of saying hi, you are now dribbling down your shirt.  If this happens regularly to you, then flirting online means you can hide behind a keyboard and not feel so exposed.  You can take your time and think about what to say.

Flirting online can also help you create sexual tension.  Without sexual tension she is going to think you are that nice guy she chats online to, but does not want to sleep with.  And she will probably think you are gay.  If  she thinks you are gay or a “friend”, then your chances of having sex just went down with the titanic.  You are going to need sexual tension to take this relationship to the next level.  A relationship might be built on love and attraction, but without pure lust it’s not getting out of the starting blocks.

Ok, so how does a dating noob learn how to flirt?.  The following tips are to help you get started:

• Confidence – In a bar you are competing against better looking men.  Not here!  Get her attention by showing confidence.  Women are attracted to confidence – just don’t get too cocky or it will turn her off.

• Make Her Laugh – A close second behind confidence is making her laugh.  Make her feel great and she will keep coming back for more.

• Tease Her – This one takes a bit of practice but is a killer technique.  Tease her a little after you can get her to laugh.  If you are nice to her, then she will think you are a good “friend”.  Tease her to create sexual tension.

• Ask Questions – Ask questions about her to show you are listening and keep your responses simple .  Be interested in what she has to say.

• Complement Her – Be sincere but not phoney.

• Be Brief – Don’t turn a chat session into a autobiography.  Be brief to create mystery.

So who do you flirt with?  The internet has opened up your options to almost every continent on the planet.  Why not flirt with a bonnie lass from Ireland?  Or how about a hot Russian girl from Moscow?  And don’t forget about those tanned Aussie women down under.  The world is your dating oyster.

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