lonely and desperate

When I first got married I was on top of the world but slowly things started to go downhill. It might have had something to do with the day to day living. Problems with the kids, money, even with the everyday living.

My relationship lost its spark and even worse it wasn’t just hum drum things were starting to get bad. I think both me and my husband just didn’t want to deal with each other. I know that sounds bad but it was the truth and we were quickly heading for a divorce.

Even still I really wanted to be able to work things out and avoid a divorce. My husband refused to see a counselor. We could work it out on our own. I think he thought that he was going to be blamed for all of the problems in our marriage. That would not have happened because it takes two people to make a marriage work. When this go south it is the fault of both parties.

I know there is life after divorce but I did not want to have a divorce so it became up to me to take matters into my own hands . I spent a long time searching on the Internet and finally pick one that was called Save My Marriage Today. There was a ton of good advice and it really helped us to work as a team to fix our marriage.

It seems like so long ago now that we were even having those problems so please know that you are not the only ones having problems and if you really want to you can work it out.

Just don’t give up.

There was a real reason why you got married in the first place and I’m willing to bet that if you look deep enough you will find that it is still there.

Really talk to each other and make the decision together what would be better for your relationship, counceling or the guidance of a self help book.

You have the ability to stop your divorce. I did and so can you.

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