lonely and desperate

So you want to know if he’s just not that into you?

Below are some signs that your crush might not be crushing on you:

They have the don’t contact me; We’ll call you attitude. They take your number but don’t give you theirs. When guys are interested they want you to have their phone number also so there is a better chance of the both of you communicating. For an excellent guidebook on how to get his attention right now,  Get A Guy Guide

1. They did give you their phone number but you’re contacting them 90% of the time. And they only call you when it seems that they are completely bored and need some entertaining.

2. He always seems to be in the middle of something when you call, if you ever catch up with him at all.  Sometimes this guy won’t even let you know that he has no interest in you, he’ll just hope that you get the message and move on.

WATCH OUT: He might be shy, afraid or doesn’t want to hurt your feelings, and might just let you keep on chasing without letting you know that he has no interest at all. Or he might let you continue to chase and flirt with him because it builds up his ego but has no goal of any real relationship with you. If he’s giving you mixed signals about whether he is attracted to you or not, be sure to just ask him in this circumstance so you don’t risk a heartbreak. In this circumstance, the back and forth can become very frustrating.

In order to speed up the process with Mr. Right you might want to focus on how you can become more attractive to him so he will possibly make the first move:

* In order to be more attractive to others it is imperative to understand that how you feel about yourself on the inside is more important than outside attributes. Use your appearance resonate how you feel on the inside. To learn how to make yourself more attractive now check out, Signs That He Likes Me

* Keeping your head up straight, smiling, having confidence and knowing intuitively that you are worthy of meeting Mr. Right is a good start.

Two Quick Ways to Build Up Confidence:

* Wear the right clothes. Choose something that you know you look good in and also that other people compliment you on.  You can feel better about yourself when you know you look good and you are comfortable in the clothes you have chosen to wear.  Other people can sense when you feel good about yourself.

* Speak positive assertions and know for sure that you deserve the best when it comes to relationships.  Do this enough and you will begin to accept it without saying it!

TIP:If someone really wants to get to know you they will do little things to let you know.  Even introverted guys find ways to see you or  have contact with you.  If you like them and they haven’t given you any keep away signals, then start to do little things to show them how you feel and see how they react. If they react positively this is the perfect time to make your first move.

If you want to know for sure how he feels about you, the best way is to just ask him.  He might feel the same way towards you as you do towards him. Check out, Signs He Likes Me

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