Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …
Maybe you’ve heard of the ‘Bucket of Crab’ mentality. You know the sort of thinking that believes, “if I cannot have it, you cannot either.” It’s a form of negating someone else’s happiness by bringing them down to their level. This often is expressed by a colleague or family member who does not like or discourages you from striving for a higher goal or stretching beyond things that are typically the norm for a culture. We’ve all been there.
It’s the same with tribal mentality. The tribe is meant to help each other and keep the culture in a sustained state of relative safety. Each member has a clearly delineated and extremely valuable role and function. If you desired to go beyond (as is our nature as human beings) you literally put the entire tribe at risk. You’re taught: “I can’t expand past what the tribe needs of me, otherwise I’d be cast out and suffer certain death”. You’d be exiled and not given food or water and without another tribe for many miles.
But you were designed to create. Your very nature is to expand, express, desire, and manifest. Then go for another fun project or dream to fulfill. I’ve read that before a child reaches 5 years old, they have heard the word ‘No’ over sixty thousand times! It would seem that our nature and our culture are in conflict with one another.
It is a small wonder contradicting beliefs, critiquing mental monologue and fear of success bring us down from time to time. It has been stamped into our subconscious. The psychological phenomena is called cognitive dissonance. It is like static in your mind when you hold two conflicting thoughts at the same time. This dissonance gets uncomfortable and wants a solution. It gets resolved in one of two methods. Either by returning to old, known beliefs, or by allowing yourself to let go of the old to strive for a better place mentally. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you completely change your experience with expert life coaching.
It’s no wonder with the programs we’ve inherited that it can feel so difficult to make any lasting changes. The truth is, it’s not your fault. Don’t feel bad and pile more negativity on yourself. You’re not to blame. Law of Attraction Relationships are supremely rewarding and fulfilling past your most wonderful fantasies! Think of someone who is everything you have ever desired in a lover.
It is not your fault, but you do have a responsibility to take your power back. You’ve always had the ability to choose who you are and command that. Your word is attractive. And even more powerfully, your thoughts in conjunction with emotion are creative and attractive. Stare the limiting programs in the face and confidently declare a different possibility for yourself. You were meant to thrive and create. You have the confirmation by the Universe. Relationship Attraction has never been more powerful as a result of the discovery of the Law of Attraction.
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