lonely and desperate

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …

A typical problem for clients of mine is their belief that they have to drop 50 pounds and/or be financially secure before they can attract long-standing love. This is of course a myth. This is just low self-esteem blocking you from being truly whole.

It is wonderful to want to look your best, feel your best, have high self-esteem and feel good about your financial situation. It feels truly good to feel secure, confident, and beautiful.

There are a MASSIVE amount of corporations that feed on peoples’ low sense of self-image. At some point or another, we’ve all succumbed to paying for that hot new piece of exercise equipment that promises to make it easy for us to tone up, slim down and own a beautiful body. Supplements, special diet foods or dieting plans, products for our hair, skin, teeth, libido, you name it! And these things are all aimed at one simple idea – that we are not actually OK the way we already are.

We are so accustomed to this type of thought pattern that we never even question it. It’s no surprise that we do this. After all, when we arrive here, on the first day of our life, we’re admired and perfect – mostly. Then soon we are compared to how the previous sibling evolved, at what time they developed this ability, sitting up, crawling, language, and so on. Our hair, our bodies and how they are similar or dissimilar to this one or that. “Oh, she looks similar to Aunt Mary when she was that age.” You know the drill.

Begin by analyzing your recurring thoughts and feelings concerning your body. Most people don’t even understand that they have persisting limiting vibrations or emotions from these early experiences. Negative emotion, whether strong or mild, doesn’t feel good and many of us just learn to subjugate it, deal with it, or push it farther into the underbelly of your mind. These intense emotional experiences tend to stay buried. We’ve all heard the term “emotional baggage.” We walk through life with old unresolved, paining, hard to deal with feelings still held somewhere in us. Those emotions emanate to the Universe to reflect back more of the same. You can free yourself by improving your self-esteem.

Begin to change your relationship with yourself by making a list of things you like about you. What really harmonizes with yourself? What can you love about your appearance? Think of 5 things every day that you truly love about your body. Do you like your hands? Are you thankful for functioning fingers? Make lists of the positive things about you and watch your energy and vibrational point of attraction begin to soar. You CAN improve your self-esteem and attract love.

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