lonely and desperate

Feeling unloved, well don’t. Some people really are unloved, simply because they won’t open up to the idea of love. Once you get to the point of feeling as though no one loves you then y! ou are ready to open up. Take a trip to Asia, no matter how old you are the girls over there will love you, even if it is only for a short time.

Are your expectations of yourself and/or your partner unrealistic? Do you think that the love that is portrayed on TV and in the Movies is real? Nothing is ever as easy as you see on TV, you have to work at a relationship to make it work, nothing will ever drop into your lap or fall into place without effort. As the Bible says, “God helps those who help themselves”.

You can look all over the world, all of your life, for that someone special, and usually when it is too late, you discover that the one you were looking for was right beside you all of the time. My brother, for example, was married at an early age, he now has been married and divorced 4 times, and lived with another 3 women, all of whom were very similar in looks to his first wife, but not at understanding as her.

To make a blossoming relationship work and to keep it blossoming you have to continue to make the effort and even increase your efforts. Let me use this analogy. If you buy a business, you will work at it day and night to make it a success. Once you reduce your efforts the business will fail very quickly. The same goes for a relationship, no relationship will last without the effort.

They enjoyed each others company, and it’s not hard for a man to fall in love with a woman who will help you fulfill your every fantasy. He gave her and her family the security that they never had. She migrated back to his home country and made a home for him like no other he had ever had.

An Asian woman treats her man like he is a king. She will work, she won’t sit around the house and do nothing like many other women do. She will send money back to her family, that is her obligation, but she will earn that money.

Love is something that comes from within, you have to give it before you get it. Many times I have heard of people go out and looking for the love that they feel is missing from their lives; they never find it. Sometimes you have to stop looking for love and get on with your life, if you are an open and accepting person the love with find you, you don’t have to go out looking for it.

Asia is full of Westerners who will tell you that they are looking for someone to love and who will love them. Don’t get me wrong, you can find and fall in love over there, but most are there looking to have as much sex as they can. That’s not love, and if they think that a girl who they meet in a bar loves them from the first moment they see him they are kidding themselves.

They say that familiarity breeds contempt, that is true in some cases, but it also is the breeding ground for love. Some people travel the world looking for love and never find it, others find it next door or just around the corner. What differs between the two is that the one who travels the world and never finds love has unreal expectations of what he is looking for, the other is prepared to compromise and be more understanding of the wants and needs of other people.

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