lonely and desperate

When you’ve broken up with your soul mate, you will have a hard time concentrating on anything other than her. The first thing you will need to do is to look at yourself, if you really want to get her back. Whatever happened to cause the break up should be looked at. Was it something you did, or didn’t do? Is this something that you can fix?

[Making Amends|Admission|Move forward Guilt free]
If it is something that you didn’t do, then perhaps it is something you can do. It may be too late to change, but it will not hurt to try. Admission is half way to fixing the problem. Admission may not get her back, but it is required if you want to have a chance to get her back. If you are unsuccessful so far then letting her know that you are sorry and can admit to your mistakes is leaving the opportunity open for her to return at a later time.

[Turning the Table|Make Her Want You]
After admitting and apologising for your mistake the next component to get her back is to encourage her to want you back. If you get her to want you back then you are improving your chances as it is not just you wanting her.

[Bad Feelings|Unhappy thoughts|Hurdles]
If the relationship ended with her angry up upset, then you have to show her how you can make her happy again. Respecting her space and patience are your allies. Be as sweet as you can possibly be when you talk to her or see her. If you’re angry at the time or you feel far from happy, at least show her the most pleasant side of yourself you can. Bring up the good times and try to get her to remember the good qualities she liked in you. If she feels you have truly apologized for what caused the break up and she sees your sweet side again, you might be able to get her back.

[Communication|Listening|Be with Her when you are with Her]
Paying attention to her whenever you are together is important. Listen carefully and don’t interrupt. Let her express herself without jumping in and telling her how she ought to feel or what she ought to do. Treat any meetings or dates with you girlfriend as the first date, you don’t want to scare her away!

[Pay Attention|Her Response]
Pay attention as to whether your girlfriend is openly coming to you and if your efforts are working. She may be softening to you and wants to spend more time with you. You may find that her phone manner will become more relaxed as she becomes comfortable with you. If you find she is initiating contact with you then she most likely wants you back. Your efforts are working if she is asking you out!

[Good Memories|Impressions|Why You]
Because she’s so impressed with how sweet you are, she wants to be around you more. By growing as a person you are showing her how much you want her and that you are prepared to self reflect and grow as your relationship matures.

[One Final Note|Finally|The Key]
The most important part of restoring any relationship and to get her back is communication, keeping it open, honest and friendly will always work in your favour. The Magic of Making Up is the best guide for all the best ways communicate with your ex to get her back and help you to grow yourself.

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