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Finding the secrets to attracting a woman may be easier than you think. Ask one! Furthermore, you will be best served by asking a woman that is similar to the type you’re searching for. To make it easier, we will lay out the main types of women out there and what you need to do in order to attract them.

First and foremost, one of the secrets to appealing to women isn’t so secret at all. It starts with how you look; your appearance. No, you don’t have to be movie star attractive, but doing things like showering daily, checking out those nostril hairs, keeping up with your hair, and taking a little pride in how you look are the best places to start. And here is one that is non-intuitive to most men - your shoes. Women pay a lot of attention to shoes. Get some nice ones. If you need to lose some weight, then get on an exercise plan and stick to it. In order to attract women, you need to take care of yourself on all levels; it shows.

Now, if you want the secrets to attracting women that are athletic and full of energy, then you need to enjoy physical activity as well. Sweat is not necessarily a turn off. These women are definitely attracted to athletic, fun-loving men, and better still if you’re benefiting from that exercise. Some women will be attracted to a little bit of friendly competitiveness. Others want to know that you’re also athletic and enjoy taking care of yourself. Mostly, they’re looking for a man that knows how to have fun and can laugh at himself.

On the other hand, sports and working out may not be your thing and you are more attracted to the brainy types. The first rule here is not feel threatened by their intelligence (or at least show it). You of course, need to be reflect this quality as well. They want to know that you are also intelligent or at least strive to be.

Are you looking for a woman who is fun, adventurous, and is even willing to play video games with gusto? Attract a woman like this by being fun. Smile a lot, genuinely enjoy yourself, go easy on the sarcasm and you’re well on your way. Practically any online dating guide will tell you the same.

The power-lunch type woman is a little tougher. This is the take-control type, organized, driven with an eye for success. They are attracted to similarly driven and successful men. Start by dressing the part. Congratulate her on her achievements as they happen and rally behind her when she is going for her next goal. Women like this are hard to attract because romance isn’t so much on their radar. Leaving a few roses for her and introducing small romantic gestures into her life might make her reconsider that she really can have it all.

The top secrets (that aren’t really that secret) to picking up a woman is looking good, feeling good, being genuinely interested in her, and being happy. Most women simply are not looking for men that they need to take care of. Take good care of yourself and women will respond to you with much more interest.

Good luck!

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