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Does your partner work late? Does your partner go to multiple company functions without inviting you or telling you? They say they are going out with “friends” more then they did before? These signs could lead to a secret that every couple is scared of, cheating.

Some Common Signs of Cheating

Can’t find some money? If your noticing that your partner has bills sent to the office, doesn’t show you the bill, just tells you the amount, has them shredded, or even locks them in files there’s a chance something is going on. Does their attitude change? Normally, they won’t want to spend time with their family, and their money becomes more important.

You feel avoided. They feel annoyed by kids, and their job. They become lazy and secretive. They get defensive when you ask them about affairs that things of that nature. Their daily schedule begins to look different to you, and they leave suspicious items, like gift cards and gifts, laying around. They begin to not want you touching their cell phone, and PDA. There could be unknown numbers or photos on these items. Are they coming home late and smelling like alcohol.

Other signs of cheating include them picking fights, stomping out of the house, not wanting to shop with you, not wanting to come with you to visit your family, and “forgetting” their wedding ring. They begin to care about how they look, and they smell different than your use to. They start to work longer hours and weekends and days off. They don’t answer their phone when you call, ever. They use their phone more than normal, and receive messages at crazy times.

Your partner may tell you that they aren’t cheating, you are. They may be more interested in your schedule, so you never catch them in their affair. They won’t want sex as much as you do.

All in all, you need to listen to what your gut says, even if you still love them. You partner could hurt you more than you expected if you don’t follow your gut.

Jennifer Clark has recently published a relationship repair website as a resource for couples struggling with different aspects of dating, marriage, sex, or divorce.

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