lonely and desperate

Ending a relationship is not always easy especially if it’s the other partner who decided they wanted out and not you. Do not rush back to them and try and get them to take you back. Spending time on the phone trying to get them to see things from your point of view wont help either.

You could even make use of one of these to help you cope with your break up: quotes of encouragement for a broken heart christian poems of encouragement word of encouragement for friends

I am not advising you to stop talking to the person, but you need to take a step back and give this person time to think things through without you being labeled a problem in the process. Do call the person but do not talk about the relationship, focus on other things and topics and if anything pretend you are friends. If your partner was just going through a phase it should wear off.

If however the relationship is over and the chances of getting back have been narrowed down from slim to zero don’t worry your life must go on. There are lots of people who you would rather be with anyway. Your family and friends will always be there for you. Just give yourself time and focus on moving on.

At this point advice streams in like spend time with other people, hang out and so on. Yes this does help until of course that odd moment when you are alone and your mind wonders off back to the past. So besides spending time with other people you should think about the things that you enjoy doing on your own.

Even if you think it doesn’t count for much, if it gives you quality you time then its good. Some people are active they play sport or enjoy the outdoors life; others are more indoor movies, music, books, cooking. being alone should not be a problem for you even if it means spending hours staring at your computer. Apart from these simple ideas you can find sites that discuss this subject in detail, broken down and made so simple you wont have a problem dealing with your current stress and move on qiuckly.

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